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Parents Talk: Should Girls Wear Yoga Pants to School?

Yoga pants serve exactly one purpose—to attract boys’ attention.

Makeup, necklines and skirt lengths have sparked battles between daughters and their parents and principals for as long as teenagers have gone to school.

While sophomores may have trouble pointing to Libya on a map or naming the Speaker of the House, I’ll bet they can recite verbatim their school’s policy on appropriate classroom attire.

I went to Catholic school and remember teachers regularly measuring to the centimeter how high girls’ hemlines were above the knee. Dress code violations resulted in immediate detention or parental conference, but that didn’t stop girls from rolling their skirts at the waistline when teachers let their guard down.

Be it rebellion or simply a need to be noticed and stand out from the crowd, girls will always find new ways to push the limits when it comes to “fashion”—no matter how fast schools update their policies to keep up with the latest trends and tricks.

This year, yoga pants have flared up as the new front line in the assault on adolescent girls’ rights. Kids first began wearing yoga pants to school in 2011, but the fad has since exploded and the tight-fitting leggings can now be found in just about every American high school.

Recognizing their absurdity, districts across the country have taken action to limit or all out ban the wearing of yoga pants to school—prompting persecuted teens to cry foul.

Some girls from Wayzata High School have recently taken to Twitter to express in the way only a teenager can their thoughts about perceived limitations imposed by the district on yoga pants. Note: school officials tell Patch no changes to appropriate dress code standards have been made and that the code of student conduct contains no specific language addressing yoga pants.

Well, it should.

I’m sure yoga pants are comfortable, but so are bathrobes and karate gis. I don’t see girls wearing them to homeroom, however. Yoga pants are for—well, yoga—and have no place in school. They serve exactly one purpose—to draw boys’ attention to areas fathers would rather not talk about or mention by name.

But it’s not the school district’s primary responsibility to police the attire of its students.

Parents who allow their teenager to wear yoga pants to school should reevaluate their decision. I’m all for allowing girls to wear what they wish, but yoga pants simply don’t belong in school. Allowing them in class sends a wrong message about acceptable behavior and sets a general bad precedent on how our girls should present themselves to society.

What’s next? Bikinis in biology?

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Emily B September 20, 2012 at 03:00 pm
But you sure could be! Feminist is not just another "F word" - we'd love to have you. :)
Viktoria October 6, 2012 at 04:39 pm
The presentation of yoga pants varies greatly. I can understand the arguement because many girls walk around with VS yoga pants and just a tank top. That gives the pants a bad look & are certainly not appropriate when worn like that. When I wear yoga pants I wear them with a hoodie and sneakers. Theyre so comfortable and quick for gym days and days that youre rushing out the door. And they dont look the least bit sexually attractive when worn that way.
Asma Safi November 25, 2012 at 07:28 pm
How do you know they're trying to attract boys? It might be for the sake of comfort. If parents let their kids wear yoga pants, why cant the school?
helen smith December 4, 2012 at 11:58 pm
my school will never allow yoga pants. they say everyone can see your panty line. well stop lookin at our butts and you wont see it!
ccrider December 6, 2012 at 12:10 pm
I searched this topic after a second "discussion" in our household this morning with our middle school-aged daughter and found this thread. While I didn't read ALL the comments, the majority of the ones I did read, from oldest to newer, seemed to communicate the responsibility of parents communicating and educating teens. SO IMPORTANT. Everyone's definition of acceptability is different though, which causes confusion. We would have no problem with our daughter wearing yoga pants or even leggings in a way that I my husband and I and our daughter deem appropriate. (Our definition for factual purposes would be: with a shirt that covers the obvious curves and underwear lines and shapes that it is scientifically proven teenage boys are tempted to look at.) Unfortunately, as in any situation with peer involvement and majority rule, our definition doesn't line up with how the majority is wearing them according to our daughter. The fact is this. Girls at her middle school, of various sizes, are wearing tight leggings/and or yoga pants, some from Victoria Secret Pink, some with thong underwear (obvious by either the tightness or the fact it sticks up above the waistband), they may wear a sweatshirt, however it is not a long baggy one. It is short, sitting at the waist or slightly below at best.
Sorry if this seemed really long. Just wanted to give a first hand experience. By the way, we live in a fairly small town in the midwest :) Good luck parenting everyone!
James Sweet December 12, 2012 at 11:11 pm
Hey everyone I have just read through every comment on this page it was a journey. I do not wish to insult anyone on this page, nor do I think I am better then anyone. All I wish is that everyone reads what I think. Let me start, I am a 15 year old boy who decided to research what parents of girls, who decide to wear these yoga pants thought. While I was reading I saw that many thought "they should be banned!" and then many said "It's there choice". I believe in it's there choice, no I am not a father, nor do I plan on being one anytime soon. This is just my opinion on this subject. Many girls at my school wear these yoga pants and I think that many of them wear them because they are comfortable and I think many of them wear them because they want to attract the boy's attention. I have to be honest they get my attention, not wanting to sound like a pig, and I hope I don't sound like one, but didn't you guys and girls feel the same way when you where my age? Wanting to get the boy of your dream's? And guys wanting to look at the girl of your dreams? At my school there is a beautiful girl and she gets my attention by her looks. Her face and her hair she is amazing, do I like it when she wears yoga pants? Yes, but when boys see a, not so attractive girl in yoga pants that doesnt make them attracted to them. I feel girls should be able to wear whatever they want to. Hope everyone has a great day. Thought I might give you guys a kids opinion on this.
fdfsd December 17, 2012 at 05:49 am
Im a seventeen year old teenager, and i personally love yoga pants. I honestly dont think that there is much of a debate here. Yogapant are a tight formfitting and rediculously material. When i wear them i dont feel like i am trying to sexually attract boys. If i did want to though i woulent go for it through yoga pants. I would personally wear something cute because i like to think of myself as a classy individual. However the girls that dont have the same tate in morals as me would just wear low cut shirts. You cant stop guys from looking, and to be completely truthful, is having your butt look good a really bad thing? No guy in his right mind would go up to you and just flat out would say "you butt looks really good today" unless thier SUPER creepy. Though guys do have piggish tendencies, i do belive that at this age they do know whats good for them and understand that you doo have to be even slightly non-degradign to women to get thier attention.
On a personal not, my mom always taught me to feel sexy, and not be ashamed of it. Now i know reading that you might be taken aback a little bit but i assure you its all in the name of class. MY mother taught me that there is a certian mistique about being a woman. She also told me that if i have a body, i shouldent be ashmed. But my clothes do not define who i am. i am still 17. i have never smoked, dranken, done drugs. I have straight A's, I am my class president i am still a virgin. And i do wear yoga pants.
makayla s December 22, 2012 at 05:23 pm
Im a 14 year old girl and I wear yoga pants to school. There is honestly nothing wrong with it and your insane if you think that. Girls get comfortable at school because when we are sitting and switches classes for 7 hours we dont want to be in ugly uncomfortable stiff clothing. There are girls at school who wear skirts high enough to see what they've got and shorts with holes in the butt. So honey, I dont think yoga pants are the problem. Its stuffed up people like you.
Alexis December 23, 2012 at 03:46 pm
Let's just face the facts that parents/adults are never going to always accept or appreciate youth trends and fashion. That's certainly part of why it's trendy at this age.
If you have issues with trendy apparel of the moment, put your kid in a school with a uniform. Most importantly, teach your kids to respect others NO MATTER WHAT CLOTHES THEY WEAR. I may think yoga pants are tacky, but it's not my place to tell anybody what they should or shouldn't wear, and it doesn't affect me, so it doesn't matter. If you're lucky you may be able to raise a child with fashion taste you agree with (but don't count on it)!
Fonz December 27, 2012 at 08:13 pm
Thank god women are so oblivious to this issue! If you wear yoga pants we WILL check out your butts!
Thank you.
bdawg January 2, 2013 at 05:12 am
If you wear yoga pants I'm going to look I'm a guy
bdawg January 2, 2013 at 05:16 am
Fat girls in yoga pants that's gross
xkatie2309 January 7, 2013 at 08:36 pm
How come when a guy wears such clothing, it is okay but when girls start to wear it, they get in trouble and the clothing gets banned?
Chelsea Widjaja January 10, 2013 at 04:26 am
So now it's an issue if women wear long pants? It's tiring enough hearing crap about wearing skirts or shorts too short, but now there's a debate over long pants? Women are independent people and have the freedom to wear what they desire. Everyone has an ass and it's not like men don't know that already. Currently at the age of 17, I do know of men's raging hormones and uncontrollable desires, but I don't see why women have to suffer for the sake of men. At least we're covering up our asses rather than having it hanging out of our pants.
anonymous January 22, 2013 at 09:15 pm
You sound stupid. Yoga pants are CLOTHES. People spend $40 on a pair, kids should have more than a right to wear them to school. They do no harm, at least they're showing up to school!!! I think the teachers and faculty need to worry less about yoga pants and more about the kids getting bullied, depressed, missing school, not doing their work. They're focusing on all the wrong things, their priorities are jacked. And yours must be too if you think something is wrong with yoga pants. My girls wear them all the time, I even bought myself a pair. They're great! If my child is showing up to school, I'll let her show up comfy. Theirs a difference between wearing something absurd and wearing something thats the same as jeans but a different material. You are all tripping for no reason, take a second to reevaluate yourself, take a couple breaths, and sit down.
anonymous January 22, 2013 at 09:20 pm
its called thongs
ChocolateLover! January 29, 2013 at 11:26 pm
As far as I'm concerned, your article is completely wrong. What's the issue if girls wear yoga pant to school? Many women can even wear them to work. Girls feel comport able and secure in yoga pants. Why would you want to take this away from young girls? When you have issues with bullying and slacking off in school you should be dealing with that before you worry about yoga pants. Not to mention, there is no difference between yoga pants and leggings/tight jeans. Many high school girls wear clothing that is way less appropriate. Have you ever heard or booty shorts or short shorts? At least your butt is inside yoga pants. Many girls wear yoga pants for comfort rather than sexual attention and the girls who wear them for sexual attention would find other inappropriate clothes. Further more, yoga pants mean high school girls can be comfortable but still look/feel good about themselves. Next time: think before u write!
Kim January 30, 2013 at 01:03 pm
Why is it that males can wear their pants where they are exposing what type of underware they are wearing and females are being critized for something that completely covers their lower body? If you do research on where the low pants for men came from, you will discover that it came from prison. If you wore your pants low it meant that you were available. If you want to address appropriate clothing then this needs to be addressed as well.
LauraM January 30, 2013 at 09:42 pm
You WILL check out our butts regardless. That's just what men do. I would just prefer to be comfortable while you're doing it. It's your guys' problem. Not ours.
Anonymous January 31, 2013 at 01:45 pm
As a student in high school, I can understand why someone would want to ban them. Our school did a couple weeks ago. We are still allowed yoga pants for PE and the actual yoga class, but not for regular wear. I personally agree, when I'm in the locker room I despise the girls who wear yoga pants, because there is usually no underwear underneath, and they are the type to wander the room. I don't see the point in writing on the butt, I don't find it that distracting, nor are any guys at school attracted by it.
And please, tight jeans are nothing new. Tight Rolled Jeans, or pegged jeans, were in during the '80s, and don't tell me nobody did that. Besides, what trends did your parents not approve of, flapping?
Jessica Lynn February 8, 2013 at 12:10 am
Have Schools ever thought that its not the tight clothes? It's the boys minds! If your gonna band yoga pants by then yuu might as well band all clothes and make everyone wear 3 turtle necks and 5 pairs of pants! Not every family has the income to buy all their kids pairs of jeans for everyday and yoga pants are on average cheaper than other types of pants. An average pair of jeans are $35! There gonna ban yoga pants but cheerleaders can still wear there little skirts too school? Hypocrites.
alm February 12, 2013 at 10:29 am
Most of YOU are clueless. Haven't you thought it's not what teachers/admins "think" of the clothing itself? It's the fact that (some) PARENTS don't teach what's appropriate and what's not. I'll tell you why schools are banning “yoga” pants, and it has little to do with them being "sexy." It has to do with the fact that (some) PARENTS don't monitor the fact that girls are replacing yoga pants with tights, which are very see--through. It's the fact that the girl wearing the tights also wears a shirt that barely meets the waist. Add to that the fact that the person wearing that outfit is also wearing a very visible hot pink thong. THEN, add to that that another student has taken a picture of that young lady and posted it on the Internet. THEN the parents and students get mad and say other kids are bullying....so the school has to discipline the kid who took the picture AND address "bullying." People, teachers just want to teach. They don't want to police clothing; they expect that the parents do that. Needless to say, that's not always happening, so then the schools have to step in and be the "bad guys."
monica March 2, 2013 at 04:11 pm
I am a 17 year old in high school and yoga pants are banned there.I really don't get it.yoga pants are SO comfortable & I wear them all the time. My boyfriend likes them a lot too, but I don't wear them because I'm trying 2 attract men like come on now.its the comfort and I love the way I look in them.
Tabitha Clark April 7, 2013 at 04:54 am
To begin, I am an 18 year old girl in high school and enjoy a gothic style of clothing. So I would like to first state the pros (or case and "evidence" of the yoga pants). It seems that they are worn for 1) comfort, 2) to raise their self esteem, and 3) to attract attention. However, they 1) attract the wrong kind of attention, 2) are distracting, 3) can insinuate a false opinion, 4) should fall under the legging category based on how they hug the skin. True boys will look no matter what you wear but that doesn't mean you have to help them out. From the ones I see at school, they are more of a legging and shouldn't be classified as an actual pant, if they are worn for actuall yoga, then how they but the skin is welcome and help fulfill a purpose. If clothing was worn over their parts, it would be fine, however this is rarely the case. On a side note and in a different category, 1) this thread is about yoga pants and not on how distracted the school board is, 2) I also feel that boys need to cover up their parts as well, but, again, this thread is about the absurdity or functionality of yoga pants, 3) while the shortness of volleyball shorts may be a bit much, this thread is for yoga pants in schools, not "uniforms" on the courts! All in all, I feel responsibly dressed, yoga pants work well as a legging, but not on their own as pants. Please cover up.
Mike B. April 7, 2013 at 10:21 pm
There is one simple solution to the sometimes questionable attire of the students... require a uniform. It need not be something uncomfortable to wear... a polo shirt and khakis for boys, and a dress below at the knees or below for the girls.
This would also encourage the kids to dress more appropriately when they get older. As it is now, many people traveling by plane/at the terminal in the airport dress like they are bedraggled refugees from some third world country.
farm girl April 19, 2013 at 01:57 pm
Well said. There are plenty of more modest clothing that is just as comfortable if not more so. Just today at the Sheetz I saw 3 girls wearing these pants and you could see every crack, every pivet, every fatty dent, and it was all in ones face. Even the cashier was grossed out. Completely inappropriate. Yes, parents *you* are in the wrong for arguing that it is for "comfort." Please. Perhaps uniforms are necessary since parents have no clue.
James N May 12, 2013 at 08:13 am
I am sorry. Is it more comfortable than a dress? Perhaps, girls in this country are too comfortable with showing off their bodies. They really should not be that comfortable. I blame the parents, and I can see why from the people writing in response to this article. We are not thinking. I substitute teach and it amazes me that the girls are wearing these. You can see through some. The do not hide much. And the guys talk about them incessantly. Stop pulling the wool over your eyes. They do not hold any purpose, except to garner attention or tow the line of current teen fashion. And fashion hardly makes it right. Of course, guys would prefer bikinis. We are not going to outlaw them because they have a place, i.e. the swimming pool. I think Yoga Pants have a place too. Girls have the right to wear what they want. But school is not the place for this behavior. Leave it at the mall. Leave it at home. School is a learning environment. Somewhere along the line, we got so self-absorbed. We forgot its purpose. If boys are distracted, it is their own fault and their parent's fault. If girls are immodest, it is their own fault and their parent's fault. Let's not kid ourselves, you let our kids run the roost, and we pay for it. A selfish, self-seeking, and harmful generation is being raised and it amazes me.
James N May 12, 2013 at 08:14 am
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Sos May 15, 2013 at 02:51 am
TJ if your 50 years old and wear leggings your safe! I am all for it let the teens show of what God gave them, school is too long anyways.
Sos May 15, 2013 at 02:59 am
Seriously, she said "I'm 50 and I wear leggings" I can't believe she thinks a 14 y/o and her are drawing in as much attention in HS or anywhere. Sorry guys had get it out of my system. One word of advice, please people stop stressing about insignificant issues. Deep down we all know what banning it from schools is the right thong to do. Some people are just too stupid too understand why.
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